We asked our friend Julia the following questions.

1. You’re a popular blogger. How has the internet changed dating life, and breakups, today?
2. Have men really evolved?
3. Do we rebound faster? Or are we just too damn analytical?
4. Are women different in the age of Sex & The City?
5. What can 40 somethings teach 20 somethings about relationships? What can 20 somethings teach 40 somethings?
6. You’re fond of a saying which goes “you can’t save a damsel if she loves her distress.” Do you think women just need the drama of a relationship?
7. In one of your blogs, you talk about your new motto, “gather ye rosebuds,” i.e., Nora Ephron’s idea that, if she knew she was hot at 26, she’d have put on a damn bikini and not taken it off for the entire freaking year! What’s your take?
8. Any insights into making love work?
9. Relationships between men and women have been fraught with complexity for thousands of years. What gives?
10. What’s your best break-up story?
11. How do I recover from this break-up?